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Blog:The Secret Aspie- Thanks to naughtynora

Blog:The Secret Aspie- Thanks to naughtynora

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I am more than my diagnoses, I am more than my past. I defy anyone to put me in a box and label who and what I am. I am exceptional. I am unique and so are you. Strive for the stars and you shall paint the world around you with ecstasy, laughter and empathy. Show

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Blog:This Woman is Different- The A word returning to UK BBC tv soon.

Blog:This Woman is Different- The A word returning to UK BBC tv soon.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/showsandtours/shows/the_a_word_26oct17

There are free tickets available for those who can get to Central London on 26th October.

When the first series was on, 2 years ago, I had no idea at the time I’m autistic, but I loved young Joe’s earphones. It’s one of my ways of shutting out the world, but I didn’t make the connection at the time. Silly me. 

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Coming to terms with Asperger’s syndrome at 56 years

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Blog:The Secret Aspie- Unbind My Heart

Blog:The Secret Aspie- Unbind My Heart

I want to get lost looking into your eyes…lose myself in the sensation of your skin under my touch…Have my tongue flay the skin from your body… I wonder what it would feel like… to have your body beneath mine…our breath playing hide and seek … my lips and tongue feasting upon yours… teasing, tormenting and then when I so choose demanding entrance… The play of energy swirling in and around us as we entice

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Blog:The Secret Aspie- Pandora

Blog:The Secret Aspie- Pandora

Your body breathing…. Scenting your fear and excitement… My sadist awakes stretching…. And she is famished…. Hunger roars through her veins… Sweat, blood and tears she will drink… Licking your skin with her whip… Her words sending you tumbling to the ground… She will grind you into the ground and laugh while she does it…. Her pleasure is your pain…. Her joy your wordless screams…. She has awakened and is starving… She will tear your

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Blog:The Secret Aspie- I never told you I was normal

Blog:The Secret Aspie- I never told you I was normal

I cannot remember if I posted this before but I am posting it again because I like it and always because I can. Ha. It was a post I had written at Fetlife after someone ghosted me.

I have a feeling I have posted it but oh well. Lol.

I never told you I was normal. I did not lie and hide who I was to you. I did not pretend I was something I

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Blog:The Secret Aspie- A Simple Life

Blog:The Secret Aspie- A Simple Life

Yes, I am posting some old entries I have written elsewhere… Lol.

There were days in my past where I thought humanity had passed the point of no return.. people killing people, rape, incest, viciousness and just plain old meanness…. what was the point I thought… in trying to survive in such a world… where was the love, the laughter and the smiles…but then I found it… In my children’s laughter I found love, within

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Blog:The Secret Aspie- On Being Dominant

Blog:The Secret Aspie- On Being Dominant

It is a lot of things… It is the power you have over another as they debase themselves and are willing to be vulnerable and show you their true colours. It is that they willingly humiliate themselves for my pleasure. It is the sexual power I have over them. To hear them beg to please me and wait to see whether I will oblige. It is getting to know them inside and out. Using everything

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Blog:The Silent Wave- Claiming my blog on Bloglovin'

Blog:The Silent Wave- Claiming my blog on Bloglovin'

Follow my blog with Bloglovin

OK, here we go again  🙂   Of course, it was my fault that I’m going through this again, so I’m not holding anyone but myself responsible.

Part of claiming one’s blog on BL is to insert the HTML code they give you into a new post on your blog, which means that the previous post won’t work, probably because the link is old.

So, please feel free to otherwise disregard

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Blog:Aspie Rude Girl- Asperger Syndrome and Autism is not the problem, society is…

Blog:Aspie Rude Girl- Asperger Syndrome and Autism is not the problem, society is…

Some people see Asperger Syndrome as a defect or a disability and because of that belief try to ‘fix it’ or even worse find a cure.

The problem with this is that the aspie brain is wired the way it is, meaning the Aspie is how he or she is. Trying to fix it is impractical and pointless because trying to make something the Aspie is not will result in failure.

I believe why some

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Blog:The Secret Aspie- Sadist

Blog:The Secret Aspie- Sadist

My very first experience to do with BDSM and the lifestyle was when my ex-wife now ten years ago asked me to dominate her.

And I was so vanilla…lol.

I was like ‘What!!!, You want me to hurt you??!!! ‘.

Needless to say, I did get over my horror at her wanting me to tie her up, blindfold her, and strangle her sending her flying off into subspace.

LOL.

Can you just imagine it?

Here I

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Blog:The Secret Aspie- Grown Once More

Blog:The Secret Aspie- Grown Once More

When did my thoughts of death disappear?

After you betrayed me and left with him.

Suicide was my one night stand, and despair was my lover.

Despair was my lover, and suicide my one night stand.

and suicide my one night stand.

My world collapsed into a black hole of darkness.

I didn’t want to live. I didn’t want to breathe.

I didn’t want to breathe.

Grief was burning a hole deep inside me.

Consuming

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Blog:The Secret Aspie- Fear

Blog:The Secret Aspie- Fear

Today I am trying to reconcile who I was in the past, and who I want to be in the future.

It is not easy admitting you made mistakes, it is not easy to admit you were not a person you would have been proud to be. I am not proud of who I was. I was needy, I was reactive, I was ill. I never tried to escape or better who I was. And

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Blog:The Silent Wave- I was dead wrong about #Bloglovin'…

Blog:The Silent Wave- I was dead wrong about #Bloglovin'…

Follow my blog with Bloglovin

(Sheepishly: yeah, you read that right.  I’ll explain…)

(Deep breath…)

OK.  Here goes.  Late last night, I wrote about how Bloglovin’ had hoovered up peoples’ blogs and was pilfering them for their own gain, at the expense of the content creators.

It turns out that I was wrong.  I’ll admit that and I’ll own my mistake.  I’m taking responsibility and setting the record straight by writing this post.  Integrity and

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Blog:The Silent Wave- I thought Bloglovin' was an unauthorized duplicator of this blog [PSA]

Blog:The Silent Wave- I thought Bloglovin' was an unauthorized duplicator of this blog [PSA]

I discovered tonight that this entire blog has been sucked into BL, copied verbatim on their own site, with no link back to the source, no trackbacks, no notifications, nada.  I’m not a lawyer, and this entire post is (like everything else on here) my own opinion, but this seems incredibly shady and irresponsible to me.

Tonight, I sent a cheery cease & desist letter via email to Bloglovin’s support team.  I am posting it

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Blog:The Silent Wave- Feathers [autistic poetry]

Blog:The Silent Wave- Feathers [autistic poetry]

I wrote this 19 years ago today, during a reflection upon a summer crush I had that year.  It turns out that the feelings were not mutual, so I wrote a piece to help bring me closure.  I should add that I was living in a very northern climate at the time.  😉

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Once upon a very magic time Far away from here Next to me stood a very magic one As the first

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Blog:The Silent Wave- #Bloglovin' is an unauthorized plagiarist of this blog [PSA]

Blog:The Silent Wave- #Bloglovin' is an unauthorized plagiarist of this blog [PSA]

I discovered tonight that this entire blog has been swiped and copied verbatim on their own site, with no link back to the source, no trackbacks, nada.  Tonight, I sent a cease & desist letter via email to Bloglovin’s support team.  I am posting it here, word-for-word as a PSA to all of my fellow bloggers who might have had their entire site lifted without their knowledge or consent.  (I can lift and reuse my

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Blog:Losing It Slowly- No Company-Anxiety and IBS

Blog:Losing It Slowly- No Company-Anxiety and IBS

When I get anxious, I have to run to the bathroom….a lot.  I looked it up once, and apparently it is an evolutionary response up there with fight or flight. No one wants to eat something that smells like pee and poop.  Its gross.  Therefore, in the wild, you panic, you go, and the predator is like, ya, not all that hungry now.

There are a thousand things that trigger my rather sensitive digestive system. 

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