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Blog:The Secret Aspie- Domini

Blog:The Secret Aspie- Domini

How can I tell you what being dominant is for me?

It is being the one your submissive looks to for guidance, for support, friendship, and a nurturing love.

It is knowing within yourself that you have the strength to carry them through the rough patches when their step falters and they are filled with doubt.

It is loving and accepting them for who they are and who they wish to be.

It is being

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Blog:The Secret Aspie- He is my blanket

Blog:The Secret Aspie- He is my blanket

Saturday I am meeting my youngest and we are spending some hours shopping for professional clothing for her new wardrobe. We haven’t seen each other since April so I am very excited.

I am staying in a motel for the night on the outskirts of the city. Rashid has been very quiet although I did notice the little rascal reading the messages I left for him.

I will be interested to see if he takes

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Blog:Aspie Rude Girl- *Reblog* Getting more autistic

Blog:Aspie Rude Girl- *Reblog* Getting more autistic

Great article and read! Thought my viewers could also find this post helpful or interesting…

yarn and pencil

A number of times in the last couple of years I have said to Lovely Husband that I am getting more autistic. I think it is to do with the menopause. The article I have copied and pasted below deals with this. It doesn’t answer all my questions but I’ve found it very helpful and I’m

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Blog:The Silent Wave- New 'The Silent Wave Vlog' / YouTube Channel?

Blog:The Silent Wave- New 'The Silent Wave Vlog' / YouTube Channel?

I’ve been batting around an idea in my head  😉

I’m thinking about creating a vlog on a YouTube Channel.  I’ve already created the channel itself, but there’s no content on it just yet, and I’m wondering if y’all would be interested in seeing me add some!

I’m thinking about discussing a variety of material:

Some of the material I’ve covered in some of the earlier posts Some of the thought-trains behind the posts I’ve

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Blog:The Greatest Adventure- This New Life

Blog:The Greatest Adventure- This New Life

When I published my last article in August I had no idea that I would go quiet for so long. I am astonished how much time has passed and how quickly. I needed that time; so much has happened, it’s been a period of endings and beginnings and I’ve needed time to absorb it all before I could come back and tell you all about it.

In August we had our six weeks of

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Blog:The Secret Aspie- Affirmation

Blog:The Secret Aspie- Affirmation

Friday night I spent a few hours with Rashid and it was just as amazing as I thought it would be. I was so nervous my heart was pounding and I had the shakes but I so needed to be with him and I know he felt the same. It had been too long since we had been together.

We met in this little tavern, the food was atrocious but the company perfection. It felt

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Blog:Aspie Rude Girl- Favorite Friday (Q&A) Series 4 and my deepest apologies for being MIA…

Blog:Aspie Rude Girl- Favorite Friday (Q&A) Series 4 and my deepest apologies for being MIA…

Sorry guys I haven’t been posting at all this past week. I feel terrible not being able to keep up with my blogging schedule or being active at all, but it has been a very stressful and hectic week. I am not one to post personal details online never mind drama in fear it can back fire and the Internet is the least private place, but this week has been very hard on both the

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Blog:Losing It Slowly- Car Panic

Blog:Losing It Slowly- Car Panic

I started a new 2 day a week job where I changed jobs and am now full time foe shit pay. Its a lot of commuting, but I am carpooling.

I am nauseated by the reading while driving and being hungry.  And my finger is almost tingling, and I had a few bruef psngs of chest pain. And as in any situation where I have nothing else to do I began to panic. Which made

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Blog:The Silent Wave- #MeToo ~ Chapter 4: The 'Boss'

Blog:The Silent Wave- #MeToo ~ Chapter 4: The 'Boss'

Ladies and gentlemen of the jury, I was going to work on some projects today.  I had even brought my laptop and thumb drive.  I made sure I had all my plug-in chargers with me.  I was committed, focused, determined.

But thoughts have their way of elbowing in, butting in line and shoving everything else aside.

Today, just now, my thought was: I need to write this.  I need to get it out there and

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Blog:Mama Pineapple- Why I “can't possibly be Autistic”, Reason #3: I'm not THAT rigid, right?

Blog:Mama Pineapple- Why I “can't possibly be Autistic”, Reason #3: I'm not THAT rigid, right?

Over a decade ago, when I was working as a low-level administrator in a university student support unit, I remember a student who was a regular and frequent visitor to our service. He came in virtually every day. He spoke in a staccato, “mechanical”-sounding voice. He always wore the same choice of clothing: blue outdoor coat; dark tracksuit bottoms; white polo shirt. In all the time he was studying at that university, I never remember

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Blog:The Silent Wave- (My) Asperger's / autism and (my) spirituality

Blog:The Silent Wave- (My) Asperger's / autism and (my) spirituality

I wrote this post a year ago today.  I’m feeling a little “retro” at the moment.  🙂

How my spirituality evolved to fit my Asperger’s/autistic neurotype 

It was true then; it’s still true now.  ❤

It talks about how I “tried on” various paths for size.  Always respectfully, of course.  I’ve always been a seeker of truth, even if the truth in question was a personal one.  I had always wondered, “what is the right

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Blog:The Secret Aspie- Duality

Blog:The Secret Aspie- Duality

There is lots about D/s that I find amusing. Lots that makes my heart beat faster and my breath quicken. I have never been one for protocols or going to events and work shops. I know they have there place but I like my D/s relationships to evolve naturally. A combination of spontaneity, and just a little forethought seems to be the best combination, and I have never been one to plan ahead unless I

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Blog:Pharaohs World!- Why Masking is self harming

Blog:Pharaohs World!- Why Masking is self harming

Why do we mask ?. Do we feign interest so we appear, to NTs, “normal” and part of THEIR society ?. Do we avoid stimming to avoid embarrassment ?. Do we wear “sensible” clothes (insert appropriate hand actions for inverted commas here) because we believe (probably know) that is what society expects ?.

Masking harms us. No matter how good we are at it, how proficient, it harms us.

In fact the damage we do

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Blog:The Other Side- Bully off! #autism

Blog:The Other Side- Bully off! #autism

I’ve recently been a target of an attempt at bullying. I didn’t think this could happen to me, so I’m writing because I want to help others feel safer and stronger. I found my experience shocking as it is many, many years since I felt such visceral fear, though with the right support I saw it for what it was – a vindictive sham. Momentarily,  it had taken me back to when I was 11 years old and cornered in an underpass

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Blog:The Silent Wave- 11/7/2017

Blog:The Silent Wave- 11/7/2017

(Content Advisory: sadness, grief, brief mention of ideation)

I’m here, my lovelies ❤

It’s been a hell of a past few days, but I’m still standing, dammit 😉

I’m not abandoning you, I promise.

My partner has confessed to me that he’s going through a Midlife Crisis, which has taken some energy to deal with.  He’s also going through a streak of depression that I suspect is heavier than he’s letting on.  I think we

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Blog:The Secret Aspie- Incestuous

Blog:The Secret Aspie- Incestuous

I don’t even know if or how this will work out with Rashid and Serena. It gets so much more complicated when you have more than one partner, and wanting to live with both of them in a poly household, astronomical.

There is also the fact that what I feel for Serena is nothing compared to Rashid. And I am not sure if that is fair to Serena. I know I love who she is

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Blog:The Secret Aspie- Frustrated

Blog:The Secret Aspie- Frustrated

I am struggling a bit at the moment. I am frustrated with my life. I hate living with other people, even family and it has already been to long I’ve been living here. Mid April is way too long and yet I have to stay another year to get where I want to be financially and work wise. I feel like struggling with mental illness up until now has stolen so much of my life. 

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Blog:The Secret Aspie- Alone Versus Relationships

Blog:The Secret Aspie- Alone Versus Relationships

It has been a little while since I last wrote although time for me still has no meaning so what could be a couple of days can feel like months.

I have been pondering lately why people say ‘You need to be on your own or date yourself for a while’, which is something Ruben seems to keep commenting on.

It isn’t that I know I cannot be on my own. I have in the past,

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