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Blog:The Silent Wave- (My) Asperger's / autism and (my) spirituality

Blog:The Silent Wave- (My) Asperger's / autism and (my) spirituality

I wrote this post a year ago today.  I’m feeling a little “retro” at the moment.  🙂

How my spirituality evolved to fit my Asperger’s/autistic neurotype 

It was true then; it’s still true now.  ❤

It talks about how I “tried on” various paths for size.  Always respectfully, of course.  I’ve always been a seeker of truth, even if the truth in question was a personal one.  I had always wondered, “what is the right

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Blog:The Secret Aspie- Duality

Blog:The Secret Aspie- Duality

There is lots about D/s that I find amusing. Lots that makes my heart beat faster and my breath quicken. I have never been one for protocols or going to events and work shops. I know they have there place but I like my D/s relationships to evolve naturally. A combination of spontaneity, and just a little forethought seems to be the best combination, and I have never been one to plan ahead unless I

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Blog:Pharaohs World!- Why Masking is self harming

Blog:Pharaohs World!- Why Masking is self harming

Why do we mask ?. Do we feign interest so we appear, to NTs, “normal” and part of THEIR society ?. Do we avoid stimming to avoid embarrassment ?. Do we wear “sensible” clothes (insert appropriate hand actions for inverted commas here) because we believe (probably know) that is what society expects ?.

Masking harms us. No matter how good we are at it, how proficient, it harms us.

In fact the damage we do

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Blog:The Other Side- Bully off! #autism

Blog:The Other Side- Bully off! #autism

I’ve recently been a target of an attempt at bullying. I didn’t think this could happen to me, so I’m writing because I want to help others feel safer and stronger. I found my experience shocking as it is many, many years since I felt such visceral fear, though with the right support I saw it for what it was – a vindictive sham. Momentarily,  it had taken me back to when I was 11 years old and cornered in an underpass

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Blog:The Silent Wave- 11/7/2017

Blog:The Silent Wave- 11/7/2017

(Content Advisory: sadness, grief, brief mention of ideation)

I’m here, my lovelies ❤

It’s been a hell of a past few days, but I’m still standing, dammit 😉

I’m not abandoning you, I promise.

My partner has confessed to me that he’s going through a Midlife Crisis, which has taken some energy to deal with.  He’s also going through a streak of depression that I suspect is heavier than he’s letting on.  I think we

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Blog:The Secret Aspie- Incestuous

Blog:The Secret Aspie- Incestuous

I don’t even know if or how this will work out with Rashid and Serena. It gets so much more complicated when you have more than one partner, and wanting to live with both of them in a poly household, astronomical.

There is also the fact that what I feel for Serena is nothing compared to Rashid. And I am not sure if that is fair to Serena. I know I love who she is

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Blog:The Secret Aspie- Frustrated

Blog:The Secret Aspie- Frustrated

I am struggling a bit at the moment. I am frustrated with my life. I hate living with other people, even family and it has already been to long I’ve been living here. Mid April is way too long and yet I have to stay another year to get where I want to be financially and work wise. I feel like struggling with mental illness up until now has stolen so much of my life. 

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Blog:The Secret Aspie- Alone Versus Relationships

Blog:The Secret Aspie- Alone Versus Relationships

It has been a little while since I last wrote although time for me still has no meaning so what could be a couple of days can feel like months.

I have been pondering lately why people say ‘You need to be on your own or date yourself for a while’, which is something Ruben seems to keep commenting on.

It isn’t that I know I cannot be on my own. I have in the past,

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Blog:Aspie Rude Girl- My Sunday Song ~ An emotional and stunning cover of one of my all time favorite songs.

Blog:Aspie Rude Girl- My Sunday Song ~ An emotional and stunning cover of one of my all time favorite songs.

I am choosing this cover song for My Sunday Song this evening for a few different reasons. There is a lot I would like to talk about, but instead will share bullet points of why I shared this song today.

#1 Her voice is beautiful and the emotion she portrayed in this video brought tears to my eyes.

#2 The Scientist is my favorite song by Coldplay of all time and probably always will be.

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Blog:Aspie Rude Girl- Reblog: Surviving NaNoWriMo; a Guide to the Late Starter

Blog:Aspie Rude Girl- Reblog: Surviving NaNoWriMo; a Guide to the Late Starter

The Merry Writer

So it’s day two or three, and you haven’t written a single god-damn word.

What do you do;

A) Cry

B) Give Up

C) Cry and then Give Up

OR

D) Follow these Five Tips for Surviving NaNoWriMo when you have no time to spare?

Well, it’s up to you… but I’d try D id you’re really keen on the idea of participating. 1)

First of all, and this one’s on the house,

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Blog:Aspie Rude Girl- I updated my blog!!! Plus future plans and other ideas…

Blog:Aspie Rude Girl- I updated my blog!!! Plus future plans and other ideas…

Hi all my wonderful followers and readers!

I hope everyone is having a great weekend. 🙂

This is just to notify that I did some recent updates to my Autism Resource page and also added a new page to my blog.

I changed the description of my Autism Resource page and added a few more resources. Two links I just added you may find neat or helpful was a website I found that is dedicated

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Blog:Aspie Rude Girl- I am honored to be nominated for The Liebster Award again! :)

Blog:Aspie Rude Girl- I am honored to be nominated for The Liebster Award again! :)

Thank you HyperChildChillMom for nominating me for The Liebster Award! It really means a lot she thought my blog was worth nominating for this award. Woot!

This is actually my third time being nominated for this award I believe, but as the rules state you can share facts about yourself and do a mini Q&A I’d figure I will do it again as a way for readers to get to know me more. The

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Blog:Losing It Slowly- Broken Toe – Real Problems are Awesome

Blog:Losing It Slowly- Broken Toe – Real Problems are Awesome

I broke a toe this afternoon when cleaning.  You would think being a hypochondriac that would send me spiraling.  What most people don’t realize is that this is what we live for.  Actual illnesses or injuries are gold, because you can deal with a real problem.  RICE, tape the toes together, stay off it, wear shoes if you gotta walk.  Every time that toe hurts it draws focus from the other 3000 things you think

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Blog:Aspie Rude Girl- Meet and Greet: 11/3/17

Blog:Aspie Rude Girl- Meet and Greet: 11/3/17

I love doing these! Feel free to stop by and take part. 🙂

Dream Big, Dream Often

  It’s the Meet and Greet weekend everyone!!  Strap on your party shoes and join the fun!  

Ok so here are the rules:

Leave a link to your page or post in the comments of this post. Reblog this post.  It helps you, it helps me, it helps everyone! Edit your reblog post and add tags.

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Blog:Aspie Rude Girl- Favorite Friday (Q&A) ~ Series 3

Blog:Aspie Rude Girl- Favorite Friday (Q&A) ~ Series 3

Hello all my amazing readers and followers!

I hope you are all having a lovely Friday. I am back with another Favorite Friday questionnaire. I haven’t posted one in quite awhile because I wanted to find ways to be more organized with this series so I don’t have to repeat so many questions. I came up with an idea that I think will work for me. Although some will be repeated from my first two

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Blog:Pharaohs World!- When you can't talk..

Blog:Pharaohs World!- When you can't talk..

I can’t speak. 

Nobody’s actually listening so the power of my voice has obviously been nullified.  

I’m given permission to speak in my own home. I’m told to “ Go on” as though it’s my turn. I say something but get battered down because I’m wrong or else I try to say something but get swamped by others who have no desire to hear what I have to say. 

Everyone knows better than me.

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Blog:The Secret Aspie- Serenade from the stars

Blog:The Secret Aspie- Serenade from the stars

I am but a woman but so much more. A perverse and fickle creature full of wanton needs and perverse desires. That which holds sway over my heart and mind owns my soul. I am greedy for what life can bring me.

This living death of my prison holds me in it’s grasp, crushing my delicate wings and yet still I struggle to live a life of meaning.  To escape these bars of my own

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Blog:Aspie Rude Girl- “My child suffers from autism” What is suffering?

Blog:Aspie Rude Girl- “My child suffers from autism” What is suffering?

“My child suffers from autism.”

I hear this from parents way too often and although I can understand the difficulties and hardships of raising a child on the autistic spectrum, it still pains me to hear these words. Parents say this as if to make some point and usually behind it is other parents who chime in with “me toos,” but the children of these parents often remain silent to this notion. I would like

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